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Moving back to Plymouth after 10 years away. It really excites me as its a wonderful location and I have a lot of great friends and family here. It is also the home of what used to be my passion in life Plymouth Argyle football club.
I say used to as I still follow them on the radio and look out fur their results but I will not go to the games anymore because they depress me so much. Not for the reasons you might think either. Watching Argyle lose has never been an issue for me. I would go and support my team and know that they were out there wanting to win as much as the fans wanted them to win, and that the background staff were doing what they could to put them in a position to be successful.
I just couldn't stand the average Plymouth Argyle fan which is epitomised by this site. Grumpy, pessimistic, glass empty!, just at the game to vent their own frustrations of their own unhappy lives (my conclusion - rightly or wrongly).
Home Park and PASOTI is a depressing place to be and since I took myself away from both - it may be a coincidence - but my life has felt and been so much better.
A very negative post but just want to conclude by saying when you have a young child and it's trying to walk for the first time do you encourage, or do you criticise and vent your frustrations? If you want to watch your friends run a marathon would you encourage or would you criticise and vent your frustrations? If your child came home from school and were having difficulty with their home work, would you encourage or would you criticise and vent your frustrations?
Why would you encourage? Because you want them to succeed.
Every boo, every negative word, every criticism has an impact on this club. Maybe some people want the club to be as unsuccessful as their lives to add that consistency?
But for those that want a club that they can be proud of have a think before you write your next post on here or follow the charmless brigade in their torrents of misery on a Saturday afternoon.
Some people have lost what the meaning of 'support' means. If you do not support your club like you would support your child or support your friend when they are going through difficult times then maybe it's time to do just that.
Whilst I can appreciate many of your points in a very well articulated post I have two major observations;
1) You maintain the child encouragement comparison throughout ........ and it appears that as things have got too tough for you then you have not encouraged or supported .... you have walked away and not seen your commitment through
2) Your topic heading "Death of a Football Club" is way way out of line - this club is far from dead - recovering from a life saving operation with a period of rehab required but dead - never Argyle will never die. It may drop through leagues or even go out of business but the soul of PAFC will live forever.
Maybe I shall start rearing my ugly head once more when I'm back next month
Maybe if you'd paid to watch the past 5 years matches, not just listening to the radio & looking out for results you'd understand our "real fans" perspectives. It's easy to sit in an Ivory tower & not having paid hard earned money to endure the poo from the past 3 seasons.
I understand what you are saying and in one respect I don't have a leg to stand on with my attendance and the money that a lot of you guys are putting into the football club. But my thoughts whether they are listened to or not is that its a bit like saying that my car isn't working very well, so I took sledge hammer to it. There are a lot of people that are not helping this club with their comments and negative thoughts.
When it comes to these people I'm sure the club are happy that they are paying their money and attending but I would also stick my neck out to say that the players would rather that these players did not turn up. There is a big distinction between supporting the club and supporting the team.
I realise that at this moment in time it could be argued that I do neither. But this is not about me, its a bit bigger than that
It's pointless arguing with this 'happy' crowd, I know I've tried.
There will always be a certain element who believe that negativity is king, but there are many faithful members of the green army who see the bigger picture and remain faithful. A few years ago I stayed away for quite some time for the very reasons you mentioned. In the Demport end there was an old fellah who was constantly mocking the team (and we were high up in the championship table???), he would not let it go and even my dad who is a gentle man gave him a look that said sit down or I'll knock you down. This went on every time we were there and now my dad hardly ever goes, maybe twice a season and frankly my attendances have cut right down as well. This isn't solely the fault of performances, but moreso the constant moronic barracking around me.
Everyone has a right to express their opinion, but sometimes it goes way over the top.
They use to say the geography of Plymouth stopped certain players from wanting to come here, are we absolutely certain that that is the whole truth of the matter? We have a lot of brilliant fans here in Plymouth and all over the country, but a certain few spoil it for the whole.