Being a football fan sucks much of the time - this is true of every team. I bet Man City fans are, on average, every bit as disappointed and frustrated as we are - all that "flair", all that money, all that everything, and they are still p*$$ed that they didn't actually win anything this season.
Argyle fans are absolutely fantastic, especially those who travel to away games.
Fans are usually going to be disappointed - it is the nature of the game - actually, its pretty much the nature of life - how we deal with disappointment is what matters.
Some fans want to vent their disappointment - sometimes fairly and accurately, and sometimes unfairly and in personally nasty ways. Well, Argyle fans are a pretty much a good sampling of society and that's how people are. We know, on Pasoti, who vents, and who is irrationally biased against or for someone associated with the club.
Fans want players, managers, owners and everyone associated with the club to be as passionate as we are - and we what that passion expressed openly for us to see (as we do with our wives and girlfriends). The more passionate we are as people, the more we want to see that passion in our club.
John Sheridan, for all his strengths (and he has many), does not often express a lot of passion in interviews or in his body language in the dugout. In person (and in his language pitch-side) he is passionate. That lack of open expression when fans are disappointed or frustrated during a game or after, really sets a lot of people off. We see it here and elsewhere.
We loved Ian Holloway right up to the moment he walked out on us, in part, because he was so expressive (remeber him "bleeding green".) In some ways Holloway's very open expressiveness only highlights Sheridan lack of it.
When Reuben's body language looks like he is not 110% physically and emotionally engaged, fans get angry and express it - its true of every player, fair or not.
If we win, all is forgiven; if we lose, nothing is forgiven. At the end of the season, we lost.
Players. coaches, managers etc. understand the deal and rationally try not to take it personally. But they are people too and stuff gets through to them to some degree.
I do not think players sign for any team based on what they think the fans are saying on the forums.
I do believe that Sheridan is aware that he is not popular among the fans. I think he will only factor that into a decision to stay or go if he thinks that it will impact his ability to succeed next season. I personally feel that he, like most people, want to win wherever he is.
Salary is important, but football is about striving to win every time - anyone without that in their gut does not go far in the sport.
Pasoti is like any conversation, we try to be tolerant of others who we disagree with, but it is hard when they use nasty, sarcastic, or needling language. I am one of the "optimists" and reading others bitch and moan is a drag. So when we have a c%@p game, I stay away if I can for a few days. If I can't (too often), I have only myself to blame when I get angry as some of the posts I read.
If we stand back and think rationally about Argyle, what we have been through over the past five years, the millstones will still carry, this was probably an "okay season." We won some games that we were passionate about (Exeter, Portsmouth) and lost a bunch that we desperately wanted to win. Our performances as well as our results were better than they have been since our financial downward spiral began after Holloway's tenure. Still, setting all of the recent history aside, we are "big enough" (meaning fan based and related revenue) to be at least a full league above where we are.
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